Monday, December 27, 2010

When I grow up I want to be just like you.

Scene 1:  Christmas Eve, Arena Parking Lot

We arrived at the arena in time for our annual Skate with Santa - we took two cars because there were seven of us.  As Peter and I pulled up, I saw my father-in-law's car across the parking lot, stopped in front of the sledding hill.  After sitting there for a second, he drove away.  He had already dropped off my mother-in-law and Sheldon.  I wasn't sure what he was doing at the hill.  I assumed that he was making a list.  Or maybe checking it twice.  It was Christmas Eve, after all.

After the skate we split up again to come home - this time Juliana drove with Grandma and Grandpa.  The rest of us got home, took off our coats, I put on the mulled wine, and finally the others came through the door.  My daughter, the worst secret-keeper in the world, wasted no time in ratting out her grandpa:

Do you know why it took us so long to get home?  Grandpa stopped at the arena hill, got out of the car and asked a kid if he could borrow his toboggan.  Then he slid down the hill.

I've known this man a long time and he'll probably kill me for telling this story, but this is why I adore him.


Scene 2:  Boxing Day, Sledding hill across from our house

It was blowing cold but beautifully sunny outside. The kids wanted to go sledding and Peter was keen to join them.  I was anxious to take my camera out so I went too.  At the last minute, both grandmas decided that they'd come and watch the kids for awhile.

At least that's what they said.

We weren't at the hill for very long before my mother was in on the fun.  First on the beginner (slow) sled on a small slope.  Before I knew it she was whipping down the hill, crashing, and lying on the ground giggling like a school girl.




Thanks you two, for reminding me to embrace fun in the small moments.  And to remember that you can never be too old to be a kid.

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And, just because we all had so much darn fun, here are more of our sledding photos:










Friday, December 24, 2010

Christmas blessings.

I love my children.


Really, I do.

But I'm spearheading a petition to be sure that next year they are in school until a lot closer to Christmas.  They've been home, with me, since last Friday.  I admit, I was looking forward to spending the week together, but in reality?

I've tried really hard to strike a balance between "Fun Mommy" and "Give-Me-An-Hour-So-I-Can-Get-Something-Done Mom".   But I'm starting to fade......

We've done baking, shopping, crafting, sledding, carolling, touring lights, had lunch out, visited friends, seen our cousin's hockey game, picked out our Christmas tree, wrapped, decorated the tree, and watched Christmas specials.  I've done laundry, vacuuming, cleaning, cooking, groceries, and all kinds of super-secret Christmas stuff.  Frankly, by last night I was just plain worn out.

Perfect timing, really.  Because that's when the enforcements arrived in the form of two grandmas and a grandpa.

Since then it's been a steady stream of treats, songs, games, breakfast out, and more.


I guess that Santa really has been watching.  He knows how good I've been because he sent me what I really wanted the most - a distraction for my kids so that I can have a couple of minutes to myself.

Thank you Santa.

And thank you Grandma and Grandpa and Grandma.


Wednesday, December 22, 2010

Striking gold.

It was only at the end of November that I bought Juliana her latest pair of Ugg knockoffs.  Uggies we call them.  She spotted them at Joe Fresh and had them on her feet before I could say "you're not getting....."  But they fit her like Cinderella's slipper.  And they were gold.  Gold.  In fact, all I could say when she tried them on was "Wow, honey, they are so........gold."  (The woman standing beside me snickered.)

So we paid for them and she put them on in the car on the ride home.  After that it was almost impossible to get them off her feet.

She wears them as slippers:


She wears them while draped over the chair to read a book:


She falls asleep in them: 


She dances in them:


She daydreams in them (no doubt a daydream about living with a mom that thinks it's ok to wear boots on the couch):


She wears them to run errands:


And three weeks later, she wears them as they start to split at the toe:


Some people might think they're cheap - splitting after just three weeks - but she honestly wears them 24/7.

Cheap Uggies.  When you're 9 years old there is almost no better thing.  Unless they also come in silver.....


Tuesday, December 14, 2010

Don't leave me.

Slowly but surely I've been moving through our house, room by room, closet by closet, to do some serious purging.  If you know me well then you know how much I love to hang on to stuff.  Just in case. When we started our basement reno last year I began a big clean out and every once in awhile I get back in the mood and I get rid of some more.

Recently I found these little gems in one of my drawers.


Originally there were more of them but, for whatever reason, these ones were in their own little pile of memories.

Eight years ago these adorned my front door.  At the eye level of a five year old, these were the last things that Sheldon saw when he left for school in the mornings.

He was the kid who hated being left at school.  He hated being left at the sitters.  He hated being left anywhere.  But, as all parents find out, five minutes after leaving your crying child anywhere, they forget all their troubles and have a great day.  If you're really lucky then they kick up a fuss when you pick them up too.  My dream day (and I had many):  screaming tears to bookend sun up and sun down.  Lovely.

These colourful shapes were our answer to getting him to school happy.  He told me what he liked about school, I wrote it down and stuck it on the door, and then every morning he had a reminder of how great his day would be.  Did it work?  Sometimes, maybe.  Honestly, I can't remember.

Eight years ago he didn't want me to leave him.  Today he hesitates to go anywhere with me.

Sigh.


Monday, December 13, 2010

It's snow fun....

It's been either snowing or blowing snow since Friday night.  I officially feel like we're trapped inside one of those shaky snow globes.

It's been a weekend of closet cleaning and purging for me.  A weekend of wood piling and snowblowing for Peter.  And a weekend of sledding and fort building for the kids.

While I enjoyed my coffee in front of the fire yesterday morning, Juliana pelted me with snowballs:




Sheldon tried, without success, to build a snow ramp off the deck for toboggan tricks.  But really, who needs a ramp?







Hope you had as much snowy fun as we did!


Saturday, December 11, 2010

Ah, that's the ticket.

Last night we went out.  Not a Mommy or Daddy in sight - it was just Jennifer and Peter with some friends.

We had tickets for The Christmas Show in town.  A gathering of musical, poetic and comic talent which included lots of recognizable local faces.  As soon as I heard about the show and saw the line up I knew it would be a great night out for Peter and me.  He came up with the idea of asking some friends to join us - a great idea because this is a small group that get together and jam on occasion (although I think that they'd like that "occasion" to be a little more frequent) and it offered the opportunity for the women to get visit too.

I left it to Peter to pick up our tickets so that there would be no chance of the event selling out.

He did.

Flash forward to last night.

We both worked all day.  He got home first so he took the kids to the arena for Sheldon's 6:15 hockey practice.  I rolled into town around 6:00 and went straight home to get a couple of things done before picking Juliana up from the arena at 6:30.  We went straight to pick up pizza for dinner, returned home, ate, and I changed my clothes to get ready to go.  Peter and Sheldon arrived home from hockey at 7:20, Peter threw back his pizza and went to get changed.  We wanted to leave by 7:30 so he had to move fast.  That's when I asked the question.

"Honey, have you got the tickets?"

I'll spare you the gory details of the next 25 minutes.  Suffice to say - he ripped through his truck, I checked all pockets of jeans and jackets that he would have worn recently.  They weren't on the bulletin board where these sorts of things are usually kept.  They weren't tucked in a cupboard or stuck in a pile.  They weren't on top of the washer or on the desk.  They were nowhere to be found.

What to do?  I borrowed some money from Sheldon so that we could purchase tickets at the door and while Peter was getting his shoes on I went out to the garage to see if I could spy any mystery bags - maybe he did some christmas shopping when he picked up the tickets and he stuck them in a bag?  A long shot given that Christmas is still 15 days away so the likelihood of Peter shopping so soon were very, very slim.  But standing on that step just inside the garage door what did I see?  Four little tickets staring at me.

On top of the garage refrigerator.  With 2 dog treats, a bin of crap, an empty garbage bag and can of spray paint.

Oy.

With eight minutes to spare we raced off to the Music Hall where, thankfully, our friends saved us two seats.

What followed was a fabulous evening - the show was ever so enjoyable, the drinks afterwards were ever so so enjoyable.  And I think that we shouldn't wait for another show to give us a reason for an evening out.

But if we do decide on another show.......  I'll get the tickets.



Thursday, December 2, 2010

Uh oh.

I just got back from having coffee with a friend.  She arrived first and ordered and then I decided to have the same so she just called over the counter "can you please make another of those?"

So now I'm home, checking emails, and I notice that my knees are bouncing up and down.

Involuntarily bouncing up and down.  Like a lot.

And then it hits me.  She ordered for herself and I just tagged along.

I just drank a large latte.  Regular.

I don't do regular.  I do decaf.  Decaf.  Always.

Probably a good thing that I'm at home this afternoon.  I've got a list of things to do and a lot of energy to burn.

Yikes.


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